The header cart and my account icons will be displayed automatically after you activate the WooCommerce plugin. Wishlist icon is enabled once you install and activate free YITH WooCommerce Wishlist plugin and compare if you install free YITH WooCommerce Compare plugin.
Cart and account links – you must setup the pages in the WooCommerce settings. Docs: https://docs.woocommerce.com/document/woocommerce-pages/
To disable or re-order the header icons go to Customizer – WooCommerce – Header(Cart, My Account & Search) – Icons Order